Shame -2011 -

She hit "Untag." But the damage was already syndicated. Someone had already screenshotted it. Someone had already sent it to the "Ugly Candid" group chat on BBM. The shame wasn't guilt. Guilt was about doing something bad. Shame was about being something bad. And in 2011, you were what your profile said you were.

She closed the laptop. She opened her flip phone. No texts. She closed the flip phone. shame -2011

She was nineteen. On a Tuesday night in November, she wore a sequined top from Forever 21 and drank UV Blue vodka mixed with cheap lemonade. The photos appeared on Facebook by 11:00 PM. By 1:00 AM, the tags were up. By 8:00 AM, the damage was done. She hit "Untag

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